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WEDDING GUIDE
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All
wedding receptions are different and meet the needs
of our clients. This guide is intended to aid in
the understanding of how Mixmaster DJ Services (Mike
Miller) performs a typical wedding reception
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We have
added some creative ideas and explanations
accompanied by some photos on some ways to create a
memorable wedding reception.
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The
photos shown below are some examples from several
wedding receptions that Mixmaster DJ Services has
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CONSULTATIONS
Approximately one (1)
month prior to your wedding date, Mixmaster DJ Services
provides a detailed consultation to customize the
planning of your special day.
During this consultation
we will discuss:
- Time agenda for all
events.
- Creative ideas and
activities to set your reception apart from all
other receptions.
- Music that will be
played at your celebration.
- To answer all your
questions and concerns.
Some things to consider
when preparing for the consultation.
- Time of your wedding
ceremony. This helps in determining the starting
time of your reception.
- Time schedules set
forth by reception facility including when they can
serve dinner, and time restrictions such as length
of your reception etc.
- Photographer /
Videographer time limitations.
CLICK HERE - To view our
wedding reception planner. |

 Typical wedding
setup

Wireless Speaker
System
Mixmaster DJ Services can provide wireless sound to
accommodate larger sized venues. Notice in the picture
above the speaker placed in the back of the room
(circled in yellow). The speaker is used to enhance the
sound in the back of the room. With the wireless
speaker system in place the sound is more evenly flowed
throughout the room instead of being loud on one end and
barely being able to hear in the back all the
announcements, blessings, toasts, and other special
activities. The volume level on each speaker can be
independently controlled to ensure it is appropriate and
comfortable level at all times. The speaker is turned
off while general dancing occurs. Please give Mixmaster
DJ Services a call for more information about wireless
speaker technology |
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SETUP / GUEST ARRIVAL
/ ANNOUNCEMENTS
Setup -
Mixmaster DJ Services arrives approximately
60 to 90 minutes prior to
starting time. This allow enough time to be setup
before your guests arrive. Mixmaster DJ Services
uses only top grade professional sound / light
systems.
CLICK
HERE - To learn more about the professional
equipment that could be used for your special day
Guest Arrival
- When your guests arrive we will provide soft
background music of your choice
so your guests can enjoy conversation during
the cocktail hour.
You
may chose from any of the following types of cocktail /
dinner hour music for your celebration.
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Jazz music
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Piano music
- Love songs
- Honeymoon
themed music (example: Hawaiian etc.)
- Dean Martin
/ Frank Sinatra style mix
- Holiday Music
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Or something else special we can put together for
you.
ANNOUNCEMENTS
Mixmaster DJ Services can make
announcements to your guests prior to your arrival.
Announcements could consist of
- Location of gift table
- Reminder for guests to sign the
guest book
- Reminder for guests to sign a
picture frame if you are having one
- Reminder for guests to take
pictures with the disposable cameras if you are
having them
- Location of a "kids table"
- Or any other special announcement
you may wish to have made
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GRAND ENTRANCE When
the B&G and bridal party arrives, we will get everybody
ready for the grand entrance. We will put everyone in the proper order and confirm all names and pronunciations.
We will also explain to everyone involved what to do and prep them for all
the upcoming activities. You may choose to have music played in
the background for your grand entrance
to enhance your arrival.
Here are some song suggestions for
your bridal party.
- 50 Cent - In Da Club
(Instrumental)
- Alan Parsons Project - Sirius
(Chicago Bulls Theme song)
- Blues Brothers - Peter Gunn Theme
- Clayton & Mullen - Mission
Impossible Theme
- Gary Glitter - Rock & Roll Pt 2
- Glenn Miller - In The Mood
- John Williams - Imperial March
(Star Wars
- Justin Timberlake - Sexyback
Instrumental Intro
- Klaus Badel - He's A Pirate
(Pirates Of The Caribbean) - (Special Grand
Entrance Mix)
- Ricky Skaggs - Orange Blossom
Special
- Various - Austin Powers Theme
Here are some song suggestions for when
the B&G walk into the room.
- 2 Unlimited - Get Ready For This
- 2 Unlimited - Get Ready For This
(Special 10-1 countdown)
- Barry White - My First My Last My
Everything
- Big & Rich - Save A Horse (Ride A
Cowboy)
- Bill Conti - Rocky Theme
- Black Eyed Peas - Lets Get It
Started
- Darude - Sandstorm
- Gary Glitter - Rock & Roll Pt. 2
- Gretchen Wilson - Here For The
Party
- Kool & The Gang - Celebration
- Prince - Lets Go Crazy - (Special
Grand Entrance Mix)
- U2 - Beautiful Day
Of
course if you have other song suggestions, or may wish to have no music
playing in the background while you and your bridal party are being
introduced.
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Beth & Bob receive a
standing ovation as they arrive at the reception for
their grand entrance

Jim & Barb arrive to their grand
entrance |
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FOLLOWING
THE GRAND ENTRANCE
You
may choose to do one of the following:
- Follow your grand entrance with your first dance as
husband and wife. Once you have finished your first dance we
would go into the dinner activities.
- Follow your grand entrance with dinner activities (as
described below) then follow with your first dance.
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WELCOME / LOVE STORY /
BLESSING / TOAST A wireless microphone will be provided should you
decide on doing a welcome speech, blessing, and or a toast.
- Bride & Groom Welcome / Thank
Guests
Message - A lot of times the B&G want
to welcome all the guests to their celebration. This is the
perfect opportunity to take a moment and say "Thanks for your support".
- Love Story
- This is an excellent
opportunity to share with your guests how you the
bride and groom came to be here on this special day. The love
story can be read by a parent of the B&G, a bridesmaid or groomsmen,
the best man or maid / matron of honor, or by any other special person
on either side of the family.
- Toast - We'll make sure all the glasses are
filled, and a speech is ready from the best man (or who ever is giving
the toast) before the toast is conducted.
- Blessing - Again a wireless microphone will be
provided so the blessing can be conducted from anywhere in the room.
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HERE - To learn more about
and see examples of love stories |

Allan takes a moment and thanks the guests and the bridal party for
being part of their special day.

Danae reads Rob &
Kayla (Campbell) Stewart's love story |
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CUTTING THE CAKE
Cutting the cake can be
done at either of the following times:
- Before Dinner
- This allows time for the cake to be cut and plated
while guests are enjoying their dinners. The cake
can then be served immediately after the main coarse
as dessert.
- After Dinner
- Once everyone has finished with their meals we'll
ask the guests to join the bride and groom for the
cake cutting ceremonies.
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Jeremy
and Alesha posing before they cut their wedding cake |
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DINNER SERVED
Again soft music of your choice is played in the background while
guests enjoy their dinner.
If you are having a buffet style dinner, Mixmaster DJ
Services can assist in escorting your guests to the buffet lines.
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KISSING GAMES DURING DINNER
To really set the tone for a fun evening you may wish to add
one of our fun kissing games during your dinner
festivities. We will emcee any activity and explain to your guests
how the game works.
Below are some choices of games we offer:
- Names In A Basket For A Kiss - (Our most
popular game) Prior to the
reception we ask the bride and groom to write down several couples names
(parents, close relatives, etc.) on separate pieces of paper and then
place the slips of paper in a basket at the head table prior to the
dinner segment of the reception. During the dinner hour when the guests clink their glasses we will ask
the bride and groom to kiss. Once they have kissed we will then
ask the B&G to pull out one slip of paper from the basket
located at the head table and read the name that appears on the paper out loud. The name of the couple who
appears on the piece of
paper must then kiss (kind of like sweet revenge).
Makes for a great game as your guests never know if they will be the
next couple asked to kiss.
- Sing A Song For A Kiss - Instead of clinking
the glasses, guests are asked to stand and sing a chorus line of a
song with the word "love"
in it. One guest or several may stand to sing. Once they have
sung a chorus line with the word love in it the bride and groom must
acknowledge with a kiss.
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Nicol and Gary are pulling names out of the basket
after the guests clinked their glasses for the "Names In A
Basket" game.

Guests are singing a song so the bride and groom will kiss |
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OTHER DINNER ACTIVITIES
We also
offer some other personal touches to the dinner hour
festivities. Again we would emcee these events
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NEW FOR 2008
Him / Her Game - (Let's Get To Know The Bride
& Groom) - This is a short comical game played
during the dinner hour where Mixmaster DJ Services
asks the bride and groom a series of questions about
each other. The object is to see how well the
B&G know each other. Questions examples:
Who is the better driver? Who does the most
cleaning? Etc. In addition you may wish to add
other guests to this game.
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Words Of Wisdom
- You may choose to have
pieces of paper and pencils at each
of the guests table.
Mixmaster DJ Services will ask each guest to write
down some special words of wisdom for the B&G. We
then can select a person to read
some of these “words of wisdom” to everyone.
during the dinner hour.
- Centerpiece
Giveaways - If you have centerpieces to be given
away, we have created a fun way of giving the
centerpieces away to your guests..
- Birthday Salute
- Maybe one of your family members or friends is
celebrating a birthday on your special day. We can
pay tribute to the lucky person by having your
guests sing happy birthday to them.
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Speeches - You may have someone wanting to
give a speech or special message. We will be glad
to provide a wireless microphone to anyone you wish.
If there
is any other special events or activities you may want
to have conducted during your dinner festivities, we
will be glad to help put them together and emcee them
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Lauren & Dave playing the Him / Her Game
(Let's Get To Know The Bride & Groom)

Christopher reads Heidi & Ryan
their words of wisdom

Kelly
Black's grandfather celebrates his birthday and is presented with a
birthday cake as everyone sings "happy birthday" |
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FIRST DANCE
The first segment of the dance is usually for the
introduction of the bride and groom, followed by the bridal party, parents
etc. There are usually 4 slow songs to initiate the dance segment and the
order is as follows:
- 1st song is just for the bride and groom to dance.
This is the first time they will be dancing as husband and wife.
- 2nd and 3rd songs are for the introduction of the
bridal party, parents, grand parents, and any other special people.
When we announce your bridal party we allow enough time for the
photographer and any of your guests to take pictures before we
continue with the next introduction.
- 4th song is for the guests to join in. This
allows the guests to join the bride, groom, and bridal party on the
dance floor for the first dance set.
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wedding love songs |

Lisa
and John celebrating their first dance as husband and wife |
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LET THE DANCING BEGIN!
You can start of the first fast dance off with this fun
"floor packer" idea.
- Multiplication Dance - Now it is time to
"Get This Party Started". One way to start the party is
that we would ask all the bridal party members along with the bride and
groom to remain on the dance floor after the first
dance introduction slow set. Mixmaster DJ Service will begin with a fast
song (usually Celebration by Kool & The Gang) and ask the bridal party
to start the fast dance. After a few seconds pass, we then stop the
music and say "Multiply". Anyone on the dance floor
(bride, groom and the
bridal party) must
go out into the audience and pick a new partner to dance with. It
doesn't matter who they choose as a new partner as it could be their
brother, sister, aunt etc. Once the original
dance members arrive back onto the dance floor with their new partners we
will continue the song. After several more seconds go by, we again
pause the song
and say "Multiply". Again anyone who is on the dance
floor must go back out into the audience and find a new partner to dance
with.
This is repeated a couple times so everyone who wants to dance can be
asked to be joined on the dance floor. This is a great way to get
your guests up and dancing.
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Guests
keep multiplying on the dance floor for the
"Multiplication Dance"
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LETS DANCE
Between all special events I play a variety of fun
upbeat dance music for all ages to keep the party
going. I am also an interactive DJ and will get the
guests motivated and involved. I am also careful not to
take the spotlight off the bride and groom but to only
enhance the party.
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HERE - To learn more about the music we provide |
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ANNIVERSARY DANCE
We already know who has been
married the shortest amount of time, so lets find out
who has been married the longest.
This dance is a tribute
to all married couples. We begin by making an
announcement that this is the "Anniversary Dance" and
ask for just married couples to come onto the dance
floor for the next slow song. We then proceed with a
"classic love ballad". While the married couples are
slow dancing we begin to eliminate couples by saying "If
you have been married for 5 years or less please step to
the side to continue your dance. Then we follow
with 10 years, 15 years etc,
until we are left with just one couple left in the
middle of the dance floor. The couple left in the
middle of the dance floor is our "anniversary
dance" winners.
The bride and groom may
wish to present the winners of the anniversary dance
with a gift.
- Suggested Gift -
Brides & grooms from the past have given either a
rose, or the even more popular a
picture frame. If a
picture frame is given, we have the photographer
take a photo of the B&G and the anniversary dance
winners. Then the picture frame is given to the winners and
explained to everyone that the picture frame is for
when the photo of the B&G and the anniversary dance
winners are developed the B&G will give the winners
the photo and they now have a frame to put the photo
in. This make a nice touch and is always a crowd
favorite.
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Mandy & Aaron
present the winners of the anniversary dance a picture
frame |
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TOSSES
Should you decide that
you want to do the tosses, you can choose from the
following options:
- Candy Toss -
This is great if you have a lot of children at your
reception. Sometimes
brides and grooms choose age restrictions on the
tosses. One ideas is to
separate the ages by tossing candy to the kids and
doing the bouquet / garter
tosses for the adults.
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Mystery Chair - There is a mystery box hidden
underneath the chair that the bride is sitting on
containing all kinds of humorous things. When it is
time for the groom to retrieve the garter he goes
for the garter but instead he digs inside the hidden
box and finds all kinds of funny things. Finally
after finding all kinds of things he eventually
finds the garter.
- Blind Fold Skit
- The gentleman who caught the garter is blind
folded and then spun around. While he is being spun
around, we replace the lady who caught the bouquet
in the chair with another gentleman. Makes for a
great laugh. Once we finish the blind fold skit we
follow up with the traditional way of placing the
garter on the lady's leg.
- Reverse - We
switch things around by having the lady put the
garter on the gentlemen.
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Candy tosses

The mystery chair

The blindfold skit |
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BRIDE / FATHER - GROOM /
MOTHER DANCES
This is a time when we
pay tribute to the parents of the bride and groom, by
playing a special song in their honor. You can choose
to do this in the following manner.
- Combination dance
- Both the bride and her
father, and the groom and his mother can dance to
the same song.
- Separate Dances
- The bride dances with her father,
followed by the groom dancing with his mother
to separate songs.
SPECIAL MEMORIES
Another great and personal touch we can add to your
wedding celebration is a tribute to your parents when we
conduct the parents dances. The B&G provides us
(Mixmaster DJ Services) with a couple special memories
you (The B&G) have remembered through your childhood.
We remind your parents these special memories when we
bring the bride / father and or groom / mother out onto
the dance floor for the parents dances. Once we mention
these messages we proceed by playing the song of your
choice for the parents dances. This is a great way to
show how much your parents have meant to you. |

Renee and Tom dance
with their parents during the combination dance
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BRIDAL DANCE - (AKA THE
MONEY DANCE OR THE HONEYMOON DANCE)
You can choose from the
following music for this
event:
- Traditional polkas.
- Slow songs.
- Slow songs and then
fade into the traditional polka after everyone has
gone through the line and danced with the bride and
groom.
We will have all
the guests form a circle around the bride and groom
while we are doing the bridal dance. After everyone has
gone through the line we will ask the guests to form a
tight circle around the bride. As tradition goes,
it will be the job of the
groom to break through the circle and escort his
beautiful bride out the door
(We all know they will be
right back for more of the party). |

Everyone is forming a
circle around Brooke while she waits for her husband to
break through and escort her out the door.

Jeff has broken through
the circle and is now escorting his wife (Jen) out the
door. |
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LETS DANCE AND DANCE AND
DANCE!
Once all the special
events have been conducted, this is when we really kick
the party in "high gear". We put together non-stop
music to really keep the party going.
CLICK HERE - To learn more about the music we
provide
PARTY KITS - (OPTIONAL)

You can add that extra
touch to your celebration with party kits. Party kits
are extra items that are given away during the reception
to provide an even greater level of excitement!
You can choose from any
of the following kits or we can create one special for
your needs:
- Party Kit – YMCA -28
Assorted Hats
- Party Kit – Chicken
Dance Kit - 12 Chicken Head Masks
- Party Kit – Old Time
Rock & Roll - 6 Guitars / 6 Saxophones / 12 Fedoras
- Party Kit - Cotton
Eyed Joe - 12 Cowboy Hats 12 Bandanas
- Party Kit – Hot Hot
Hot – 12 Sombreros / 24 Maracas
- Party Kit – Electric
Slide - 50 Glow Sticks
- Party Kit – I Love
Rock & Roll - 6 Inflatable Guitars / 6 Inflatable
Microphones
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Party Kit - Margaritaville - 12 Parrot Head Visors /
2 Deluxe Parrot Head Hats / 72 Leis
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Party Kit - Soul Man - 12 Gangster Hats / 12
Sunglasses / 12 10" Inflatable Microphones
- Party Kit – Wipeout
– 12 Beachcomber Hats / 72
Leis
- Party Kit - Confetti
We always have the guests
of honor pass out the items.
We want to make sure the focus is on the bride and groom
and not Mixmaster DJ Services.
All party kits are for
guests to keep as souvenirs.
CLICK HERE
- To learn more about Party Kits |

"YMCA" Party kit

"Hot Hot Hot" Party
Kit

"Electric Slide" Party Kit

"Chicken Dance" Party Kit

"I Love Rock & Roll" Party Kit |
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MORE DANCING
The party never stops
until the end. Mixmaster DJ Services plays requests
from your guests as well as music requested from the
bride and groom. |
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GAMES / SKITS
Mixmaster DJ Services provides lots of dances and skits
at your event, however you may wish to add some other interactive games or skits
to
your celebration. Below is a list of a couple
extra games we offer:
Or we can create a unique game tailored to your tastes |

Wedding musical
chairs / Scavenger hunt |
| LETS DANCE SOME MORE!
Again we will provide fun
music throughout
the evening between all the special activities to get your guests up and
dancing.
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Tim & Darcie get
prepared for their Jamaican honeymoon with the
one of many interactive skits
performed throughout the night |
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FAREWELL DANCE / ENDING
At the end
of the reception we once again pay tribute to the newlyweds by asking
them to come out on to the dance floor for one more slow set before we say
goodnight.
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THE GRAND FINALE (OPTIONAL)
- END YOUR NIGHT WITH A SPARKLERS CELEBRATION
A great way
to end your celebration is with sparklers. We will send your guests
outside for the perfect ending to your perfect day!
- WARNING WITH USE OF SPARKLERS
- 1. Approve the use of
sparklers with the venue. Find out where the best place to use the
sparklers.
- 2. Keep away from smoke detectors
3. When planning your ending, be aware of the surroundings for fire
hazards: carpet, dry conditions, etc.
4. We recommend purchasing the 20" sparklers, they last longer for the
pictures.
5. Have something to extinguish and dispose of the sparklers: big flower
pot/bucket (not plastic) filled with sand. Again check with your
venue for assistance.
6. Mixmaster DJ Services will Inform the guests on how to use the
sparklers and prepare them for your grand finale. We will also
inform your guest on the procedures using sparklers
7. For the perfect picture we'll ask the couple to "stop & kiss" in the
middle, makes a great picture.
Please contact Mixmaster DJ Services for more details with
the use of sparklers and the best way to create the perfect "Grand Finale"
Note - Sparklers must be provided by contracting party. |


Heather
& Joshua finish off their perfect day with a sparklers
show at the end |